Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, fitness professional, author, and midlife marriage first-timer. A lifelong athlete with a lifetime of singles experience, Treva knows first-hand how to achieve peak performance in life and love.


Treva’s debut book is part self-help/dating advice, part-memoir, and 100% delightful. If you can stop laughing long enough, you’ll realize you’ve just met a one-of-a-kind force of nature who has managed to acquire an invaluable store of knowledge on life, love, and personal growth. Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer’s Guide to Love is a universal source of inspiration and practical advice.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a late bloomer or early blossomer; male or female; single or partnered; millennial or midlifer. It doesn’t matter if you’re divorced, widowed, new on the market, stuck in dating hell, dreaming of getting married, or just dreaming of getting laid, there’s something for everyone.

Done being single podcast
with treva & robby