Private Coaching with Treva

It’s my honor and pleasure to recommend Treva as a dating coach. She not only gave me a helpful “woman’s perspective”, she helped me to look at things in ways I had not before. And Treva is there for you with a willing ear and sound advice whenever you call her.

Working with Treva was truly transformative. She combines empathy, honesty, and insight in a way that feels both deeply supportive and powerfully motivating. More than a dating coach, she showed up as a trusted guide—challenging my patterns while offering practical tools, fresh perspective, and genuine care.

Her flexibility, preparedness, and unwavering presence—especially during moments when I really needed support—made all the difference. If you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed and want someone who truly gets it, Treva is exceptional.

Treva shares her expertise with experience, sympathy, and insight going forward from wherever you are in your life at the time, to where you want to go. I have worked with Treva for a while, she helped me “Find me,” and then prepared me to find an awesome gal to have a wonderful relationship with. It worked. I’m very appreciative of Treva’s efforts.

This guy spent countless hours laying on a pleather chaise blathering about yesteryear…until I met Treva!

Felt Treva just ‘got me’ the moment we met. In the three months we worked together, she introduced me to myself and shared all the wonderful attributes I project. Never in a million years would I ever think I needed a life coach--wish I would have met Treva sooner! Cannot say enough positive words about her coaching approach--she fixed me in more ways thoughtfully possible! I bought her book "Done Being Single” too, and can’t put down! So get her book!
Thanks Treva you make me feel fancy!

Having Treva as your coach and counselor is like having a close long-time friend suddenly acquire a relationship skillset and tell you honestly what you are doing well and not. Importantly, it’s not just candidly telling you when you’ve gone astray, but also when you haven’t. I tend to be very self-critical, assuming that issues are in my head or of my creation. Treva has been super-helpful in assuring me that relationship discontent is OK and to go with it.

Although my experience has been therapeutic, be aware it’s also not therapy. Don’t ditch your therapist or choose Treva as a substitute for a therapist. It’s somewhere between friendship and therapy without being either.

I can’t even begin to say how much Treva helped me. She truly cares so much and really taught me how to have confidence and self worth. I’ve been to many therapists over the years and Treva, though not a therapist helped me more than any of them. Her wisdom and compassion come natural and she could relate to what I was going through from her own personal experiences. I am so grateful she came into my life.

Treva is one-part coach, one-part close friend who tells it like it is. She’s not just there to congratulate you on your successes, she’s works with your challenges by offering honest feedback and tough love.

Treva possesses a wealth of experience, empathy, and insight. She can assist you in navigating any stage of your life, from self-discovery to building a fulfilling relationship. I’ve been working with Treva for some time now, and she’s been instrumental in helping me maintain and strengthen my relationship. I’m incredibly grateful for her support.

I was fortunate to have a family friend recommend Treva Scharf to me. Even though I'm a generation younger than Treva, her coaching was extremely helpful. She’s warm and accessible, and had insight on everything I was going through. Her constructive guidance helped open my eyes to some patterns and behaviors that were standing in the way of my life goals.

I'm especially grateful for the invaluable guidance Treva provided on long-term life planning and family-building options. She encouraged me to make some decisions that have since given me immense peace of mind. I worked with Treva in my mid-thirties and now, just a few years later I am happily building a life alongside a supportive and wonderful man. I feel fortunate to consider Treva both a friend and mentor.