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How Much “Should” You Talk Between Dates? 5 Things to Consider (Dating After 50)
Welcome to 2nd Act TV — where love, dating, and relationships after 50 get a fresh (and sometimes humorous) new look! If you want to find and keep love after 50, this is your place to thrive!

Dating on the Front Lines
Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness pro, marriage first-timer at 51, and author of the book, “Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer’s Guide to Love.”

Treva Brandon Scharf’s favorite dating and relationship advice books
reva Brandon Scharf paid her dues in the dating world. She loved and lost, dumped and got dumped, and finally became a first-time bride at the age of 51.

Hyper-Independence in Dating: Empowerment or Emotional Avoidance?
Hyper-independence in dating is increasingly being examined as both a form of empowerment and a potential barrier to meaningful connection. While strong self-reliance can support personal growth, extreme independence may limit emotional intimacy and prevent partners from building trust.
Done Being Single? Late Bloomers Are Finding Love
Dating after 40 and being single can feel exhausting in modern dating culture. On Call Me Friend, Daryn Kagan talks with dating coach Treva Brandon Scharf about dating burnout and finding love later in life without losing yourself.
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Swipe Wrong Podcast
Enjoy the replay of Frank Talk Summit! This is the second installment of a four part series covering both days of the virtual summit.

The Date Forever Podcast
Seeking and finding love has no timeline. At 51, Treva was married for the first time and realised she learned a lot about relationships through dating but is now putting some of those lessons and skills into practice with her husband.

Girl Boner Radio
Treva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow.

Sixty and Me
We all seek love and connection. It’s a natural human trait to want to bond and share with others. Are you single and ready to mingle?

The Truly Charming
How to Tell She’s Playing Hard to Get and What You Should Do