In The Media

Hyper-Independence in Dating: Empowerment or Emotional Avoidance?
Hyper-independence in dating is increasingly being examined as both a form of empowerment and a potential barrier to meaningful connection. While strong self-reliance can support personal growth, extreme independence may limit emotional intimacy and prevent partners from building trust.
Done Being Single? Late Bloomers Are Finding Love
Dating after 40 and being single can feel exhausting in modern dating culture. On Call Me Friend, Daryn Kagan talks with dating coach Treva Brandon Scharf about dating burnout and finding love later in life without losing yourself.

Treva Brandon Scharf: Done Being Single Part 2
You’re not going to want to miss Part 2 of my dating and relationship conversation with my guest Treva Brandon Scharf. It doesn’t matter if you’re a late bloomer or early blossomer, male or female, single, or partnered, millennial, or midlifer. It doesn’t matter if you’re divorced, widowed, new on the market, stuck in dating

Treva Brandon Scharf: Done Being Single
Discover Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer’s Guide to Love, Treva’s debut book that blends self-help and dating advice with memoirs, all wrapped in 100% charm! Laugh while diving into Treva’s unique wisdom on life, love, and personal growth. An inspiring and practical guide for anyone looking to transform their love life

How To Get Over An Ex: 13 Steps To
Make Sure You Take, From Experts
Parting ways with someone you’ve loved deeply and envisioned a future with is profoundly heartbreaking that the devastation has inspired countless works of art, songs, cinema, and literature.
Book Press

Swipe Wrong Podcast
Enjoy the replay of Frank Talk Summit! This is the second installment of a four part series covering both days of the virtual summit.

The Date Forever Podcast
Seeking and finding love has no timeline. At 51, Treva was married for the first time and realised she learned a lot about relationships through dating but is now putting some of those lessons and skills into practice with her husband.

Girl Boner Radio
Treva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow.

Sixty and Me
We all seek love and connection. It’s a natural human trait to want to bond and share with others. Are you single and ready to mingle?

The Truly Charming
How to Tell She’s Playing Hard to Get and What You Should Do
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