
ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author.
Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author.
ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author.
Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author.


We all know phones can be intrusive and distracting, but if you’re single, your phone could be doing something worse: it could be keeping you

I read a recent New York Times Modern Love essay that had me nodding my head in agreement and shaking my head in despair: “Men,

There was a time in our dating culture when men approached women. That’s right. In real life. In-person. Face-to-face. If a guy saw a woman

As if I wasn’t already disturbed by technology short circuiting love (ruining it, rather) here come AI GFs and BFs to put the final touches

Do you forgive an asshole? That’s what I’m wondering today. It’s Yom Kippur, the “Day of Atonement,” and as a Jew, I should be atoning

As a dating coach, I often wonder what happened to civility in dating. Where did it go? How did we lose it? When did people

Single people of a certain age will tell you dating has really changed over the years. Even in the 10 years since I was single,

Reading NYT columnist Thomas Friedman’s recent Op-Ed piece “How We’ve Lost Our Moorings as a Society,” got me thinking about how the dating world is

Do you know people who constantly complain about dating, how hard it is, and how it’s always someone else’s fault when things don’t work out?