AI Is Not Your GF or BF!
Treva Brandon Scharf
December 18, 2024
ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author.
Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life/dating/relationship coach, author.
My Post Yom Kippur Thoughts on Forgiving Assholes
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Do you forgive an asshole? That’s what I’m wondering today. It’s Yom Kippur, the “Day of Atonement,” and as a Jew, I should be atoning
Single People, Are You Misbehaving in the Dating World?
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As a dating coach, I often wonder what happened to civility in dating. Where did it go? How did we lose it? When did people
Being a Gentleman Is Not Toxic Masculinity
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Single people of a certain age will tell you dating has really changed over the years. Even in the 10 years since I was single,
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Reading NYT columnist Thomas Friedman’s recent Op-Ed piece “How We’ve Lost Our Moorings as a Society,” got me thinking about how the dating world is
Have You Ever Thought the Problem Might Be You?
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Do you know people who constantly complain about dating, how hard it is, and how it’s always someone else’s fault when things don’t work out?
It’s OK To Admit You Hate Being Single
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It’s OK to hate being single and I’m giving you a safe space to say it. You’ve got permission to admit you’re tired of being
1 Tip To Survive & Thrive Being Single After 50
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Single people over 50, I’m not here to tell you that in order to survive and thrive being single, you must love yourself first, learn
Cuffing Season is Officially Open
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The holidays can be a time of great joy and celebration, but if you’re single, all that joy and celebration can make you feel, well,
The Golden Bachelor, A Golden Opportunity
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Say what you will about “The Golden Bachelor” being “overly scripted,” “superficial,” and “cringeworthy,” I happened to love it. I thought it was endearing, and
